It’s scary, but true. In this age of new miracle pills where it’s possible for even the most aged man to rise to the occasion, girly lama wonders if this is good idea. Hey, all of us girls understand the lure of the sexy, wise, powerful, and successful older man. But when some old coot come rolling at you on a motorized scooter with an oxygen tank and a Viagra-fueled … [Read more...] about Pop a blue pill, but don’t burst an artery
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Recycling the Ex
There can be a lot of reusable material with an ex. In the right situation – more specifically, when you are detached enough that he can’t hurt you—they can be very useful. If you were with them for a long time and they know you better than most any other guy, then they can be great advice givers. If you’re having a dry spell and still feeling some attraction, then … [Read more...] about Recycling the Ex
Mirror, Mirror, Who’s the Goddess?
Loving yourself is the foundation of everything. Take time to understand who you are and what you enjoy without comparing yourself to others. You are your own unique masterpiece, and no one else has your combination of talents, quirks, and dreams. Celebrate that! Self-love isn’t just about spa days or bubble baths (though those are amazing). It’s about setting boundaries, … [Read more...] about Mirror, Mirror, Who’s the Goddess?
Dump the Drama Queens, Keep the Dancing Queens
True friends will lift you higher, not pull you down. Surround yourself with people who cheer for your wins and stand by you in your lows. Friendship is about quality, not quantity—three real friends are worth more than a hundred acquaintances. It’s okay to outgrow friendships that no longer serve you. If someone brings negativity or drama into your life, it’s a sign to step … [Read more...] about Dump the Drama Queens, Keep the Dancing Queens
Breakup or Break Out
Breakups can feel like the end of the world, but they’re often a beautiful beginning. Allow yourself to grieve the loss—it’s okay to cry, vent to friends, and eat ice cream straight out of the tub. Healing takes time, so don’t rush it. Instead of focusing on what you’ve lost, shift your energy to what you’ve gained: lessons, clarity, and the opportunity to rediscover … [Read more...] about Breakup or Break Out