Q: I think my boyfriend is cheating on me because he keeps his phone locked and hides it when I walk by. What should I do?
A: First, let’s not jump straight to “cheating” just because his phone’s locked—he could be hiding way worse stuff, like his Candy Crush obsession or his attempt at writing poetry. But if your gut’s telling you something, here’s the plan: don’t snoop. Instead, casually drop, “Who’s Gina?” the next time his phone buzzes. If he laughs and says, “Gina? Who?” he’s probably fine. If he stammers and turns the color of expired yogurt, well, Gina might not be imaginary. Either way, have a real conversation—trust is built with words, not wifi snooping.