
Q: I’ve been ghosted after three amazing dates. Should I text him again?
A: Honestly, if he ghosted you after three amazing dates, he doesn’t deserve your time, energy, or data usage. But if you really want closure, send one light, nonchalant text like, “Hey, just wanted to check if you’re alive—no pressure.” If he doesn’t reply, then you have your answer: he’s either a coward, a commitment-phobe, or, possibly, actually lost in the woods. Either way, don’t wait around for someone who can’t be bothered to respect you enough to communicate. Your time is too valuable to spend waiting for Casper.